1、这是需要自己去慢慢领悟的,每个人的恋爱都是独一无二的,没有放之四海皆准的道理,同时恋爱本身也没有任何道理可言。保持新鲜感就需要有各自独立的空间,有让对方可以探寻和好奇的地方,这与怀疑对方对自己不重视或者对自己不忠诚完全不是一回事。
2、求大同存小异是必然的;大同就是大家的三观必须一致,小异是具体到某些事情可以容许彼此有不同的处理态度或者方式。我们总在迷茫中找寻爱情,觉得谈恋爱的前后相差太大,其实爱情很简单,就是从始至终的人和无始无终的事情,最后一起步入古稀,这是最好的爱情。

1, this is to need this to be comprehended slowly, the love of everybody is unique, do not have the reason with put all standard of great capacity, at the same time amative itself also does not have any truths but character. Maintain new move to need to have the space of respective independence, have the place that makes the other side OK seek become reconciled to surprise, this and distrustful the other side are right perhaps to him ignored oneself are not faithful and complete not be one and the same.
2, begging Great Harmony to keep little surprise is inevitable; Great Harmony must agree with respect to the 3 view that are everybody, little surprise is specific to certain thing OK and concessional each other have different processing attitude or means. We always are in confused in search love, the around that feels Tan Lian loves differs too big, love is very actually simple, namely from only then to eventually support of the people is not had only then without eventually thing, enter seventy years of age together finally, this is best love.